tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1237529515432696063.post7223228485473907280..comments2023-11-02T04:05:19.890-07:00Comments on The Happy Sad Mama: VignetteCharlotte's Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06664161835198688326noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1237529515432696063.post-10163491808887748982009-07-04T07:36:58.264-07:002009-07-04T07:36:58.264-07:00i say that sometimes. i always wonder afterwards ...i say that sometimes. i always wonder afterwards if it was worth it, not for the sake of the other person, but because i have to stand there and then say, "IT'S OK." and it's not.charmedgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12317107200577724625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1237529515432696063.post-63050923734671370372009-06-27T17:28:30.439-07:002009-06-27T17:28:30.439-07:00Some people do buy gear early... but seriously, th...Some people do buy gear early... but seriously, the idea of ME buying gear in advance is almost laughable. I forced myself to buy one outfit and felt sick on the way home. But perhpas some day...Charlotte's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06664161835198688326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1237529515432696063.post-61691972115014471472009-06-26T17:48:40.570-07:002009-06-26T17:48:40.570-07:00Really...you've never done that? You never had...Really...you've never done that? You never had one of those indignant days when you just didn't care about protecting her feelings and just -- saying it? <br /><br />Wow - you ARE a good person. I can't count the number of times I've given in.<br /><br />Um...and did she bother to look at your belly? Some people do buy gear early.Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878937591945134056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1237529515432696063.post-78051781119537621852009-06-22T13:29:31.235-07:002009-06-22T13:29:31.235-07:00I might have said that to that woman. Even though ...I might have said that to that woman. Even though my one son died 56 days ago, my name tag for the NICU when I visit his twin brother will always say Baby Boy #2 causing many parents to comment at the washing station how cool it must be to have twins. "Yes," I say, "but one of my twins died on the day he was born." Not to be mean or awkward, but what else can I say?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1237529515432696063.post-25130734293616921752009-06-22T09:01:51.156-07:002009-06-22T09:01:51.156-07:00So shocking, such an affront to delicate sensibili...So shocking, such an affront to delicate sensibilities, to the order of the universe, this sort of loss... it makes me want to scream it from the rooftops, strangely.Inannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03696628144350223948noreply@blogger.com