tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1237529515432696063.post692773155086228638..comments2023-11-02T04:05:19.890-07:00Comments on The Happy Sad Mama: What would you do?Charlotte's Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06664161835198688326noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1237529515432696063.post-45013038378865204542008-03-03T09:32:00.000-08:002008-03-03T09:32:00.000-08:00she delivered Birdie "in" 3 mins not "is"....oops....she delivered Birdie "in" 3 mins not "is"....oops...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06959816794813024196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1237529515432696063.post-80114780794329609942008-03-03T09:31:00.000-08:002008-03-03T09:31:00.000-08:00Yes, I can embrace this. As I hope that the next p...Yes, I can embrace this. As I hope that the next place of birth for us will be with the doctor who tried in vain to save Birdie...<BR/><BR/>Yes, I believe in her wanting us and needing us to have a live baby, and working with her and the CNM's that will do anything they can to ensure this for us. They will not rest until that is what we have. The OB who delivered Birdie is 3 mins....is an angel. She also confided in me that she moved her family closer to the hospital and that she will be there with us in the hospital until our next child is born. She also is PRO VBAC all the way...and PRO LIVE BABY!<BR/><BR/>She is unique in her profession.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06959816794813024196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1237529515432696063.post-29514815485440500102008-03-03T05:09:00.000-08:002008-03-03T05:09:00.000-08:00I do think about this a lot- I do think that a lot...I do think about this a lot- I do think that a lot of doctors want to be healers. I always keep their humanity in mind.<BR/>I also think a lot about the individuals who manage to stay in the field and who do not succumb to fear and over-manage a majority of pregancies. People that can be brave enough to leave the birth that ended with an angel soul, and attend the next patient's birth with the joy it deserves.<BR/>And I wonder what makes the two parties different?<BR/>For the record, I am NOT one of the special folks who could leave the fear and go into the next birth expecting the best, and so I know that I am not cut out for the profession of bringing babies into the world.Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06987619820332454441noreply@blogger.com